Sunday, January 31, 2010

Carpe Diem

Such a small phrase that is somewhat overused, but to me, it is very powerful. I am such a procrastinator. Putting things off is one of my best talents. I’ll give you some tips at a later time.

So, without getting too cliche, these are some thoughts that keep me motivated:

  • Today is the best day to get things done. Garth Brooks said it best “… what you put off for tomorrow has now become today…”

  • Tomorrow is not guaranteed. Get it done today!

  • What are you putting off? Going back to school, learning a new language, learning a musical instrument, something else...


  • On the other side of my coin, I have such a long list of things I want to do. I want to do them all now. I want to read about twenty different books today. I want to learn about four foreign languages. I’m smack in the middle of an MBA program, but I also want to learn to play two more musical instruments right NOW.

    So how do you balance? What is the answer? The internal battle that I have between Procrastination Bryan and Workaholic Bryan will never die. I will always have to choose priorities, make sacrifices, and make choices.

    The point is short just like this post. DO SOMETHING. Regardless of what it is get out there and do something. Don’t be a couch potato. Take and active role.

    Sunday, January 24, 2010

    Hope for Haiti

    In the wake of a natural disaster, the tendency is to want to help. Think back for a second to Hurricane Katrina or 9/11. I’m sure you had an emotional reaction of horror, fear, compassion, or disbelief. What did you want to do? For most of us, provide help, but how? Personally after 9/11 emotions of disgust and betrayal filled my psyche. I wanted our military to do something about it. After Katrina, I similarly felt compassion for those who lost all of their worldly possessions and wanted relief efforts by the Red Cross and National Guard to sweep-in and help. However, I never considered doing something myself.

    I have been watching the devastation of Haiti in sheer shock. I truly feel for the people of Haiti. Harm and I went to the Dominican Republic for our Honeymoon, and the landscape, the climate, the everything of that island is truly paradise. However, lackluster building codes, years of political upheaval, and lack of quality education have left the country susceptible to devastation. Part of me says that ignorance is no excuse “the foolish man builds his house upon the sand.” As out of context as that argument can be, it does go through my head. Why? I am a capitalist at heart which I am more and more believing is similar to evolutionary theory. The strong survive, and the weak perish. That, however, is a discussion for another day.

    I do have compassion in my heart, and I want to help. As Americans, we think that helping means writing a check. Don’t get me wrong, money does help, but writing a check and thinking that you have ‘done’ something is naive. It really gets to me when a big name celebrity puts on a telethon and brings out all of his big name friends. Everyone who watches and donates feels better about themselves because they ‘gave.’ What are we teaching our children by this type of behavior?

    I watched Hotel Rwanda last night. There is a scene where Paul Rusesabagina is talking to a reporter (played by Joaquin Phoenix) who shot some violent footage of the genocide outside of the hotel. Paul says he is glad that the footage will show because people will know the truth and they will send help. The reporter replies that they will say “That’s horrible, then keep eating their dinner.”

    And that’s exactly what we do. We keep eating our dinner, going to work, buying our big-screen TVs, watching NFL football games, and going about our lives like nothing is going-on. Every day people die of hunger, from not having clean water, or for some other frivolous reason. What are you going to do about it? Write another check?

    Let me give you another alternative. Take for example Michael Andrew a photographer. He was personally convicted by this Haiti tragedy. He is in Haiti today DOING something about it. I consider Michael a friend. He was the wedding photographer for my wedding and my brother’s wedding. So, I have spent some time with him on a business level, but I have also followed his blog for a while now. He is truly a genuine person. When he said he was going to Haiti, I knew it was not to draw attention, get sympathy, or try to find out how many people would object. He is passionate about positively changing the world. So what is Michael doing in Haiti? He is documenting all of the orphanages in the area of Port Au Prince. When he finds one, he uploads the GPS coordinates to Facebook and photographs the damage and children. There are many places that have received aide, but others have not. He is basically improving the flow of information back to those who can provide aide. More than anything, he is there. He is sacrificing his own resources, time, money, skills, etc. to make a difference.


    Photo courtesy of MichaeltheMaven.com


    I encourage you to make a difference. Don’t be content with just giving monetarily. Do something. I’m not saying drop everything and go to Haiti, but do something in your community, for a local school, go on a mission trip. Whatever you do, do it sacrificially. Otherwise your motives are selfishly driven, and your actions will be for nothing.

    Whatever it is… Get out there and DO IT. What are you waiting for? Now is the best time!!

    Friday, January 1, 2010

    Aspirations for 2010

    To bring in 2010, I have come up with some aspirations not resolutions. The word resolution means a firm decision to do or not to do something, but the word aspiration means a hope or ambition of achieving something. Therefore, I have the aspiration to achieve these things over the next year. A resolution is more for those who want to go to the gym, quit smoking, lose weight, etc. I have the aspiration to do the following:

  • Post at least 2 new blog posts per month with a goal of one per week.

  • Read one book per month (at minimum).

  • Triathlons: Do at least 3 sprint & start training for Olympic length.

  • Do Run for the Reason (see blog posts from April 2009)

  • Do 1/2 marathon (possibly Music City)

  • Some personal things that I won’t mention here


  • What is it about the new year that makes us celebrate? Is it a reason to party? Maybe so… But why do we not celebrate each new month? Yay for February!! or March! Why not? Why not take it to the next level and celebrate the beginning of each week? Some might argue that they do party every Saturday night. So, what’s the point?

    As I get older, I realize that the new year is more of a formality than something of substance. The new year as a child or youth is something to look forward to. As a student it means half-way through another school year. A new year for a 15 year old means entering the year that you get to drive. But as a 25 year old, I have no more ages to look forward to other than retirement age. Retirement is a completely different post for a different time. My point is that life is mundane and monotonous. Without something greater than ourselves there is little to live for. Therefore, those living the Ecclesiastes life have created events to make life more interesting.

    I tweeted a while back asking the question, “what do you do to keep life from being mundane?”. I got responses anywhere from “have kids” to “read a book.” No one actually got what I was pointing out. The point is that life is mundane. It is boring. However, the followers of Christ have hope in the life after this one.

    So, make aspirations, hope for the future, and make plans for what you will do, but keep in mind that this life is temporary, mundane, futile, and tenuous.

    Ecclesiastes 1:2 -"Meaningless! Meaningless!" says the Teacher. "Utterly meaningless! Everything is meaningless."